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Thanksgiving: the Gateway to Joy in Difficult Times

Shalom. I am thankful for you, your willingness to stand with the Jewish people, and your prayers as we reach Jewish people around the world.

We are approaching Thanksgiving, and I have been thinking a lot about the importance of giving thanks as a spiritual discipline year—maybe more than in past years—because of the war in Israel and rise of global antisemitism. But I know it is God’s will for me to thank Him in all circumstances. 

I enjoy saying thank you by eating delicious food including the usual bountiful feast of turkey, sweet potatoes with marshmallows (a personal favorite), and pumpkin pie on Thanksgiving. Yet, as much as I enjoy the meal and family time, I know that thanksgiving is more than a feast! As believers in the Messiah Jesus, we are called to cultivate a daily spirit of thanksgiving. Paul wrote,  in everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:18).

And King David before him sang,“Give thanks to the Lord for His is good; for His lovingkindness is everlasting. Oh let Israel say, ‘His lovingkindness is everlasting’”(Psalm 118:1–2). Thanksgiving is an everyday possibility when we know the Lord and praise Him for His goodness and grace.

Everyday Thanksgiving and the Hope-Filled Life

This wonderful Psalm has been recited for centuries by Jewish people as part of the Hallel Psalms, also known as the “praise psalms,” which are chanted during our major Jewish festivals. Many Christian scholars also believe it was one of the psalms sung by Jesus and His disciples at the conclusion of their Passover meal (Matthew 26:30). Whether read in synagogue, church, or as a reflection in private devotion, Psalm 118 resonates across faith traditions as a song of thanksgiving that leads to hope. It bridges human suffering and divine deliverance, rejection and acceptance, despair and gratefulness.

David frames the conclusion of the psalm with almost the same words as it begins when he writes, “You are my God, and I give thanks to You; You are my God, I extol You. Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; for His lovingkindness is everlasting” (Psalm 118:28–29).

The psalm encourages us to cultivate an attitude of gratitude and thanksgiving, which is so important for our spiritual well-being. Giving thanks is also a survival tool for the dark moments of our lives. Thanking God in the midst of life’s greatest challenges enables us to be grateful for the small blessings we would otherwise either not notice or take for granted.

Grateful for God’s Mercy in Life’s Darkest Times

Allow me to share the story of my friend, Ellis Goldstein, who discovered how to give thanks during very challenging circumstances. I am so moved by this story that I have also shared his story in our newsletter—so do not be surprised if you remember seeing it! 

Ellis was born into a traditional Jewish family with roots in Eastern Europe. Everything changed during his college years at Penn State. Through conversations with a patient campus mentor, he began exploring passages about the Messiah in the Hebrew Scriptures. Initially skeptical and confused, he struggled to understand how these ancient prophecies could have relevance to his modern life. Six months later, in a moment of divine revelation, which he described as having “a veil lifted,” he suddenly understood that Jesus was his Messiah. This was not merely intellectual acknowledgment but a heartfelt recognition that transformed his entire worldview. The same Scriptures he had studied mechanically as a child now came alive as God’s personal letter to him.

This newfound faith became the cornerstone of his family life. He and his wife, Colleen, raised their daughter, Heather, with the same vibrant faith that had transformed their own lives. Their joy knew no bounds when, at a very young age, Heather made her own decision to trust Jesus as her Savior. She grew into an exceptional young woman—academically gifted, wise beyond her years, and someone her peers sought out for guidance and counsel.

Then came the moment that would shatter their world. On January 19, 1994, as Ellis stood in his garage preparing to leave, state police pulled into their driveway. They handed him Heather’s driver’s license and delivered the devastating news: Their seventeen-and-a-half-year-old daughter had died in a fatal car accident. The tragedy that no parent should ever face had become their reality.

Years later, another crushing blow struck their already wounded family. Colleen began experiencing throat problems that led to a devastating diagnosis: ALS, or Lou Gehrig’s disease. He watched helplessly as this cruel neurodegenerative disease systematically robbed his beloved wife of her ability to speak, write, and eventually breathe properly. When Colleen expressed that her suffering had become unbearable and she longed to be with the Lord, he faced the agonizing reality of losing his remaining family member. After Ellis took his wife to the hospital because of her labored breathing, the doctor gently informed him that Colleen wouldn’t be coming home. Several days later, in the middle of the night, while Ellis was sleeping in a chair next to her bed, two nurses woke him up to tell him Colleen was gone.

Standing alone in that hospice room, having lost both his daughter and his wife, he cried out to God in raw anguish: “You’ve taken away my entire family. What am I supposed to do?” The loneliness felt beyond description, a pain so deep it seemed to challenge the very foundation of his faith.

Yet, it was precisely in this darkest valley that God’s grace became most visible. While Heather’s death had caused him to question God’s love for an extended period, Colleen’s passing revealed something different—not doubt, but profound assurance. He saw God’s mercy and grace displayed in ways he never expected, recognizing that both his daughter and wife had transitioned from earthly bodies into the eternal presence of their Savior. Their faith in Jesus as Messiah had secured their place in God’s presence, transforming death from an ending into an eventual reunion.

Through unspeakable loss, Ellis’s testimony reveals how faith in Jesus provides strength, despite life’s tragedies, and can help us find hope, purpose, and even gratitude in the midst of them. His story echoes the psalmist’s journey through dark valleys and his ultimate discovery that God’s love and presence remain constant, even when everything familiar is stripped away. This is faith tested by fire and found genuine, which is a testament to God’s sustaining power when human strength fails.

I am amazed that Ellis, who recently remarried, has served the Lord faithfully for many years and remains an inspiration to thousands through his work with Cru.[1] Of course, it has been a long journey for my friend, but because of his relationship with the Lord Jesus, he has been able to experience daily renewal and live a hope-filled and joyful life.

A Heart of True Gratitude

Gratitude is God’s antidote to hopelessness. When we remain thankful in tough times, it is not a naïve surrender to the difficult moments we all go through, but a decision to trust Him through the hard times and reject the temptation to become embittered. Doing so is possible because the Lord lives within us by His Spirit and, through Him, we can be victorious (1 Corinthians 15:57).

When illness shadows our days, when loss leaves us breathless, and when uncertainty plagues us, we can be grateful for the Lord who is with us in the hard times. The psalmist teaches us that gratitude is not built upon the absence of trials but upon our trust in God’s character and sustaining power.

As I speak to our staff in Israel who are still running to bomb shelters with their families while continuing to preach the gospel to their fellow Israelis, or to our staff who are enduring the trials of living in war-torn Ukraine—and still have joy, I know that they have a source of spiritual power that transforms their lives because they know the Lord. 

Thankful for You!

November is my spiritual birthday month. I accepted Jesus as my Messiah in November 1970 as a young Jewish man searching for truth, just a couple of weeks before the Thanksgiving holiday. Rejoice with me, and, if you wish, send me a happy spiritual birthday note! 

On behalf of our staff in the United States, Israel, and twenty other countries across the globe, I want to thank you for your prayers, financial support, and for encouraging us in our mission to reach Jewish people everywhere with the gospel message.

Happy Thanksgiving and may the Lord fill you with hope and joy as you praise Him for who He is and what He has done! So, give thanks to the Lord, for He is good.Amen!


[1]CRU is a Christian organization focused on evangelism and discipleship, founded in 1951 by Dr. Bill and Vonette Bright.

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Finding Hope in an Ancient Song: Psalm 22

Shalom in His grace! We all recognize that we are living in tough times. Wars in Israel and Ukraine, rising domestic violence, political and cultural polarization, and economic uncertainty cast a shadow on our lives as we try to do what is best for our family, ourselves, our communities . . . and our country! We are trying to stay positive and healthy at the same time, which makes hanging on to hope more important today than in days gone by. If we are to be fully honest with ourselves, each one of us is looking for solutions to the everyday stress that plagues our path during seasons of unrest. 

We need to find hope in a dark and difficult world.

So, let us take a few moments and explore how we might find a source for hope that can fuel the inspiration and encouragement we need to keep our lives and those of our families healthy and moving ahead, and to be both happy and productive.

The World is Turning Against Israel and the Jewish People

For those of us who are Jewish, we often feel like the entire world is turning against Israel and the Jewish people! We cannot avoid following what feels like a never-ending war between Israel and its neighbors. We recently memorialized the second anniversary of the October 7, 2023, attacks by Hamas upon the Jewish people. That day remains seared in our collective memory—a day when thousands of terrorists stormed across Israel’s border to murder, rape, and kidnap innocent men and women, young and old.

What makes this tragedy even more devastating, if you know the geography of Israel, is that many of the victims had dedicated their lives to building bridges with their Palestinian neighbors, which is why they chose to live on the Gaza border. Many of those killed believed in the possibility of peace and the dream of a unified society where Israelis and Palestinians could coexist. Hamas and Palestinian Islamic Jihad met their hopeful, outstretched hands with hatred and violence.

The war that followed has so far claimed the lives of more than 1,000 young Israeli soldiers and countless innocent Palestinian civilians—victims of Hamas and other jihadist groups who have shown no mercy even to their own people. The conflict has spread, and Israel continues to face attacks from Lebanon, Yemen, and Iran, while antisemitism surges around the globe. Just when we thought it was safe to be Jewish in the modern world, the oldest hatred has reared its ugly head once again. We live in tumultuous times! It is natural to ask where we should turn for hope and comfort.

A Psalm of Abandonment and Hope

For Jewish people, it is easy to feel abandoned once again by the God who promised us that He would never leave us or break His covenants and promises with our people. After the Holocaust, countless Jewish people asked, “Where was God when six million of our people were being slaughtered?” Today, we find ourselves asking similar questions, such as, “Where was God on October 7?” or “Where is God now amid such intolerable suffering?”

How can we come to grips with our disappointment and find ongoing hope in His promises?? 

These are not new questions. They are as old as humanity itself and find a most soulful expression in the songs of the psalmist king. In Psalm 22, King David cried out with startling vulnerability: “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Far from my deliverance are the words of my groaning. O my God, I cry by day, but You do not answer; and by night, but I have no rest” (Psalm 22:1–2).

Here we find a king—anointed by God Himself—feeling utterly abandoned. David did not pretend everything was fine. He did not offer vague statements about God’s mysterious ways. Instead, he gave voice to the question that haunts every human heart in times of crisis: “Where are you, God?”

I love the humanity of the biblical authors, especially as seen in the life of King David. He was worn out and weak, but, unlike many of us, he admitted it! He did not hide behind his throne or shade his real-life struggles with pious language. He simply told the truth about his experience.

David’s raw humanity and honesty are a foundation for healing and hope. He understood his own need for comfort and even transformation. He penned: “Yet You are holy, O You who are enthroned upon the praises of Israel. In You our fathers trusted; they trusted and You delivered them. To You they cried out and were delivered; In You they trusted and were not disappointed” (Psalm 22:3–5).

David placed his personal suffering within the larger story of his people, which is one of deliverance—of promises and hope fulfilled, even in his darkest hours.

From Despair to Declaration

The psalmist continues his journey from asking despairing questions to discovering a quiet confidence of hope and trust in God. By the end of the psalm, David made an extraordinary declaration: “Posterity will serve Him; it will be told of the Lord to the coming generation. They will come and will declare His righteousness to a people who will be born, that He has performed it” (Psalm 22:30–31).

What refashioned David’s cry of abandonment into a song of hope? It was not the absence of suffering, as the psalmist never denies the reality of his personal pain. Instead, David’s songs gave voice to a transcendent hope that rose above his difficult circumstances. The God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob called David “a man after His own heart” (1 Samuel 13:14)—not because David was perfect, but because he knew where to turn when attempts to find perfection failed him. David understood something profound about the human condition and the darkness of our hearts—our greatest strength often emerges from brokenness and defeat rather than from victories.

Hope for Today

Whether you find yourself wrestling with trauma, war, regret, or loss, Psalm 22 meets you exactly where you are. It speaks to the parent worried for their child’s safety, the soldier carrying both visible and invisible wounds, the young person questioning their future, and the older person weakened by age and reflecting on a lifetime of many joys and too many regrets.

I invite you, regardless of your background or beliefs, to explore these ancient songs that have sustained the Jewish people through exile and persecution and led to celebration and renewal. David’s words lead us to the hope he enjoyed through his deeply personal relationship with the God of Israel.

For millennia, everyday people have found comfort through the Psalms irrespective of their faith tradition. The Psalms welcome doubters, questioners, and the brokenhearted to encounter God Himself! The Psalms are so helpful for those who are struggling with faith or even questioning the existence of the God through whom King David found strength.   

Hope Amid Rejection

In Psalm 22, David moves from complaint to praise and from suffering to hope. The Psalm reveals the arc of faith itself, which is not a neat, tidy progression, but a genuine journey from darkness to light. When Jesus quoted this psalm from Golgotha, He reminded all within earshot that His story, too, was a journey from death to life, from crucifixion to resurrection, and from apparent defeat to ultimate victory.

Both Christians and Messianic Jews believe the Messiah, Yeshua (Jesus), quoted the first verse of Psalm 22 while hanging on the cross.He cried out,“My God, my God, why have You forsaken me? Far from my deliverance are the words of my groaning.

When we find ourselves crying out, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”, we are joining a dialogue that started with David and one Yeshua reiterated—a conversation that concludes that feeling forsaken is not the same as being forsaken. The God who seemed absent was there all along. The God who appeared silent was orchestrating a symphony of circumstances leading to hope, which one only needed to recognize.

God’s presence is at the very heart of Psalm 22 as He makes His presence known to us during hard times in ways that we can miss when we are riding the tide of success and approval. The hard times teach us to trust the Lord, and so often His presence is far more powerful amid our struggles than in times of great triumph. It permits us to be honest about our pain, enables us to be persistent when we do not hear an answer, and provides the realization that our story does not end with abandonment, but rather with a full-on encounter with His love.

Psalm 22 is one of those great poetic and prophetic moments that leads Christians and Jewish people to seek a deeper and more intimate relationship with God, even when it seems as if our loving Father is not listening! The question we must ask ourselves and of the Lord Himself is, “How do we find this relationship with the God of Israel?” We need to ponder this question and that of the Messiah’s role. More specifically, we need to consider the Messianic psalms like Psalm 22 that find their fulfillment in the person of Jesus the Messiah.

As a Messianic Jew who has found Jesus to be the Messiah, this matter has been settled for me. If you do not yet have a deep personal relationship with the God who loves us, I hope you will continue to search for Him. I encourage you to keep reading, and if you do not have His shalom—a peace that transcends all human difficulties—my prayer is that you will keep reading and discover the One, the Messiah, to whom David pointed and through whom we can find peace with God! 

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